Bigenderflux ! ! !
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By @Goshikko
Goshikko's Carrd
Created since 3/10/2021
Updated since: 4/4/2023
Before you read:
🧡 I made this carrd simply because there are no bigenderflux carrds around the internet. Bigenderflux isn’t a widely popular gender in the LGBT+ community and as someone who came out as transmasc bigenderflux/nonbinary, it’s a bit upsetting to me that we don't get much recognition. I'm doing this not just for bigender or genderflux people, but anyone who wants to read up and make sure being bigenderflux matches their identity!💛 Do not bully or harass anyone who identifies as a gender that you don't understand or is unpopular! It's very invalidating to LGBT+ people who feel comfortable trying to fit in identifying as that specific gender and it can hurt them a lot mentally and emotionally. Learn some respect and educate yourself doing research if you don't understand!💜 Please let me know through DMs on my Twitter, Instagram, or my Discord (Goshikko#2665) if you have any questions, anything I say that may be offensive, misinformation, or anything that I didn't know about! There's not a lot of information about bigenderflux and I'm trying really hard to find a lot of information for this carrd so I would appreciate anyone to respectfully let me know! Keep in mind that I'm also autistic so I may say or word things that may not make sense or didn't know was offensive to begin with.
What is bigenderflux?
Bigenderflux means one who identifies as two genders fluctuating or changing over time. A bigenderflux person may feel like they're female 80% and male 20% one day but then the next day they feel they're female 40% and male 60% and so on!Being bigenderflux can also apply feeling male/nonbinary, female/nonbinary, or other 2 fluctuating genders!
DO NOT CONFUSE THE BIGENDERFLUX FLAG WITH THE PEDO FLAG:
!!! TW: Pedophilia !!!
I made this page incase for whatever reason the pedo flag gets confused with the bigenderflux flag. Both of these flags are entirely different by color palette so please do not confuse the two if you see someone with a bigenderflux flag!!!
WARNING: IF YOU CAME ACROSS ANYONE WITH THE PEDO/MAP FLAG, REPORT AND BLOCK THEM IMMEDIATELY!!! MINORS, PLEASE DO NOT GO AND ATTACK THEM, YOU WILL BE MANIPULATED AND MENTALLY HURT!!! PEDOPHILIA SHOULD NEVER BE NORMALIZED AND SHOULD NEVER BE PART OF THE LGBT+ COMMUNITY!!!
Bigenderflux Q&As:
If you have any questions about bigenderflux, dm me @Goshikko or @N0sh1kk0 on Twitter or Instagram, or on Discord Goshikko#2665! Your question might even be added here!
Can I be gay, lesbian, bi, pan, aroace, demisexual, etc. and be bigenderflux?
Sexual orientation =/= gender identity so of course you can be any sexual orientation and be bigenderflux! (Ex. I'm bi and demisexual while being transmasc bigenderflux.) Straight and closeted people are also allowed to be bigenderflux.
Are bigender/bigenderflux and bisexual the same thing?
Nope! Bigender/bigenderflux is a gender identity, bisexuality is a sexual orientation. Bigender people can be any sexual orientation they sexually/romantically feel attracted to.
Can you be AMAB/AFAB and be bigenderflux?
Sex =/= gender so anyone assigned male/female at birth can identify as bigender/bigenderflux if they feel comfortable identifying as such! Being AMAB/AFAB and identifying as bigenderflux does not make you cisgender.
Can I be bigenderflux and use he/she/they pronouns?
Gender =/= pronouns. A bigenderflux person can go by whatever pronouns they feel comfortable with as long as you asked respectfully! They can go by he/she, he/they, she/they, any or all pronouns! (Ex. I go by he/she/they pronouns as a bigenderflux person.)
Do I have to transition as my other gender to be bigender/bigenderflux?
No, you don't have to! Not all trans, nonbinary, genderfluid, etc. people have to transition to match their identity. It's valid to feel comfortable with your own natural body. Transitioning to another gender is optional.There are also gender expression identities called transmasc or transfem if you feel more connected to masculinity or femininity.
Reminder: Gender expressions doesn’t always have to match your gender identity, whether you’re tomboy or effeminate!
Can you be bigender/bigenderflux and be xenogender/use neopronouns?
Actually yes! Maybe you fluctuate as a xenogender 30% and another 70% one day, and then the next day you feel that same xenogender 80% and another 20%! You can go by whatever neopronoun fits you best! Neurodivergent people are allowed to identify as bigender/bigenderflux and have neopronouns!
Does identifying as 3 genders make me bigender/bigenderflux?
Hmm, you could be trigender/trigenderflux, multiflux/fluidflux, or maybe genderfluid. To identify as bigender/bigenderflux, you must feel connected to 2 genders only.
Can I be genderfluid and bigender/bigenderflux at the same time?
You can??? Not trying to speak up for all genderfluid people but it might be confusing if you identify as both of those genders. Though if those 2 genders are what you identify as, I don't see any harm with it.
"I still don’t understand bigenderflux..."
And that's okay! Don't feel bad if the topic of bigenderflux confuses you. Gender is a very difficult and confusing subject to a lot of people who are not used to it or were never educated enough about it, even LGBT+ people such as myself, but it's still important to have some respect to anyone whose gender identity is different from yours.If you feel bigender/bigenderflux doesn't identify you, it's okay to keep searching to figure out whatever you label as and whatever makes you comfortable! I've gone through researching about what exactly is my gender identity as a minor since all my life, there were times where I felt I was not fully female 100% (I also didn't felt genderfluid identifies me).You're valid no matter what, keep researching at your own pace!
🌟 THANKS FOR READING!!! 🌟
Don't hesitate to DM me @Goshikko through Twitter, Instagram, or my Discord (Goshikko#2665) if you have any questions, or you want to warn/correct me about anything, or simply letting me know other bigenderflux information I didn't know about!I'm doing the best I can to put and update lot of information in this carrd since bigenderflux is not a widely popular gender in the LGBT+ community! Some things will get updated and changed.
As a shoutout, please also look over the LGBTQ+ mastercarrd if you want to learn more about all LGBT+ sexualities and gender identities:
If you want to learn more about genderflux labels, here's the genderflux positivity carrd!
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